Those who want to be brutally honest are usually more brutal than honest.
Would you want to get shaved by a razor blade in the hands of a 3-year-old?
God wants us to grow up, to know the whole truth and tell it in love—like Christ in everything. We take our lead from Christ, who is the source of everything we do. He keeps us in step with each other. His very breath and blood flow through us, nourishing us so that we will grow up healthy in God, robust in love.