(noun) - a person who's behavior indicates a powerful need to control people or circumstances in everyday life.
How's that working out? How happy are you?
Are other people really the problem?
Leave the crowd and become a disciple.
Calling the crowd to join his disciples, he said, "Anyone who intends to come with me has to let me lead. You're not in the driver's seat; I am. Don't run from suffering; embrace it. Follow me and I'll show you how.
Self-help is no help at all. Self-sacrifice is the way, my way, to saving yourself, your true self. What good would it do to get everything you want and lose you, the real you? What could you ever trade your soul for?