Did you grow up in a Christian home?
How do you know?
(The most common answer is, 'I went to church as a kid').
How do you model faith at home?
What would your kids say?
(Again the most common answer is, 'I go to church.')
Is that what its really all about?!
So this is my prayer: that your love will flourish and that you will not only love much but well. Learn to love appropriately. You need to use your head and test your feelings so that your love is sincere and intelligent, not sentimental gush.
Live a lover's life, circumspect and exemplary, a life Jesus will be proud of: bountiful in fruits from the soul, making Jesus Christ attractive to all, getting everyone involved in the glory and praise of God.